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Intro:
We have all (well, most of us), at some point or
another, come across those long lists of sexual/BDSM activities
also known as "BDSM Check Lists"
(Hey, some of them are even posted here in the BRC article
section).
These lists are a great tool for self evaluation and are
very beneficial when it comes to seriously negotiating with
a potential Dom/sub.
Problem is, that if you want to fill in such a check-list,
you:
- Have to find a suitable one.
- Have to print it out.
- Have to fill out the hard copy. (And God forbid you make
a mistake…)
- Have to use 'snail mail' if you want to send it to someone.
Until Now!
This is how it works:
Basically, it is a long, long
long list of
activities.
For each of these activities you mark whether or not you
have experienced it and how much it appealed to you at the
time. If you have not experienced that particular activity,
your rating relates to the degree of ummm, satisfaction you
think you would derive from that activity.
Fill the form from the perspective of your D/s orientation.
i.e. If you are Dom and the activity is 'flogging' - You rate
it as giving a flogging. If you are a sub, you rate it as
receiving one. If you are a switch... Well, you'll just have
to fill in the form twice, won't you? Hey, can't have all
the fun all the time, right?
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